2nd Entry

“MARRYING MONEY” is the young woman, older man…

 “Marrying Money” is the young woman, older man where talking about a young woman who marrying an older man that have a great amount of money and wealth that can provide anything in terms of need, wants and demands that’s important in human life and satisfaction. When it comes to this statement, many people will judge that certain young woman is a beautiful, feminine and attractive woman that only approach men that is rich enough that can give a lot of luxury things such as jewelry, expensive dress, handbag, shoes and others that people claims the young woman as a “gold-digger”. Without any facts and evidence people tends to judge others and this is what they called stereotyping-exaggerated generalizations associated with categorizing system, they go beyond the facts at hand and make claims that usually have no valid basis. However, it is also something that most people find difficult to avoid from doing.

 Nowadays, it is pretty common that a young woman married old man to have a husband and wife relationship but some of people see it as a bad relationship because of the age gap. This negative perception can only cause bad impact in society because categorizing someone we don’t know without knowing their reasons from doing so. People always claim that when a young woman married an old man is because of his wealth and can provide a comfortable life like a princess that can satisfied any demands from shopping by spending a lot of money as for old men many label them as a pervert and only wants a young beautiful wife that have a nice figure that can lure any men and catch their eyes like a hungry person that wants to eat something big.

 As for me, I don’t quite agree with this kind of statement that is because not all young woman and older man are the same. It’s not about the money but more important and can give a happy life in a different way. Young woman are very sensitive and need attention from their partner, they may married old men not because of their money but their maturity and have a responsibility that can make them feel secure and love.  As for older man, they are the leader when having a family so they hold responsibilities in caring it. The reason most man wants to have a younger wife not only because of their figure and youth but because of their attitude as a young woman that makes every each of man feels attracted and wants to protect it. They also wants to guide their woman in a good manner and shows them that they have a great personality as a leader and matured in certain ways.

 Have a happy life with our partner is not mean to have a lot of money, but to have a lot of sweet memories together and lead this kind of relationship to a better future. Every marriage needs love and understanding to defend our relationship and gives convenience towards each other without using money. This shows that even we have a lot of money that is not a guaranteed that money can provide us happiness and fulfill our life with a meaningful relationship. That’s why not every young woman who married older man are the same, it is their right to married with each other because of money or because of loves. We as outsider should not simply judge these people based on their appearance without knowing their feelings. Don’t judge a book by its cover as it is a wrong thing to do and may hurt others without even we realize it.